![]() ![]() ![]() How would you interpret our Lilith aspect? Thanks for any light you can shed. Re: the ‘other woman’ aspect: He was very recently seperated when we first met again and is still awaiting divorce papers so although I’m not ‘the other woman’ legally he’s still married so technically I am! We have fabulous loving sex where both of us are finally expressing ourselves fully. Together we are finding ourselves again, we are completely open, honest and commited to supporting each other. We had both been in very long relationships with communication and sexual blocks with partners who sapped our confidence and ultimately broke our hearts in different ways. We hadnt seen each other for over 30 years until he contacted me out of the blue last year. He is someone who was a special friend when I was a teen and I had a huge crush on for years. We have Lilith (his) conjunct Sun (mine). Am in a new relationship with a fabulously compatible combined chart and am looking at Lilith which I haven’t really looked at before. Hi, am returning to astrology after over 20 years so am a bit rusty. I’m still coming to terms with it all and the part I played in ending a long serious relationship, but I hope that maybe on some level the fiancé will become a stronger person in the end and things will work out better for her in the long run. I definitely was cast as the bad woman who ruined the perfect relationship even though he had been cheating on her for years (which I subsequently found out), but I was the catalyst that brought it all out into the open. The fiancés sun was conjunct my Venus/Mars/Lilith to the exact degree, so she was also experiencing the Pluto square transit. The fiancé inevitably found out about me and everything came to abrupt end, including the engagement. Transit Pluto was squaring my Venus/Mars/Lilith at the time. I eventually found out he was engaged then made the mistake to continue seeing him as feelings had started to develop. A few years back I met a guy online who confirmed he was single. My Venus Mars and bml are all conjunct within one degree. I have some experience of this aspect that I’m not too proud of but learnt a lot as a result. With work, honestly, and a real willingness to see each other’s point of view, this aspect can become the magic glue that holds the couple together for life.ĭo you and your partner have the Sun and Lilith in aspect? What is it like? Though the nature of the relationship depends on the whole chart, the profound nature of this aspect is undeniable. And when they do, it will bring them even closer. The Sun person works on creating a safe, warm space for the Lilith person to be themselves, and the Lilith person works on frank and loving self-disclosure. It’s in these configurations that we are able to both see what we have to work on and enjoy the fruits of our labor. Sometimes the Sun feels magnanimous and warm, and sometimes it feels repulsed and judgmental. Sometimes Lilith feels seen and loved for who she is, and sometimes she feels judged or sidelined. What if one person’s Lilith opposes the other’s Sun, but that person’s Lilith trines the first person’s Venus? Or what about a thousand other mitigating factors? Then we have a mix of both. Of course, not everything is that black and white. This can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings on both sides. Lilith, hurt and outraged, will either withdraw into their darkness or lash out, refusing to carry another’s shadow. The Sun person may project upon the Lilith person, keeping them in shadow and blaming them for not standing in the light. Here, the Sun person fully inhabits their scorching rays, and the Lilith person stays in shadow. A conjunction, square, or especially an opposition can have a very different effect. This connection can knit a couple together in profound and long-lasting ways. In turn, the Sun person shares their authenticity and warmth and feels gratitude for being able to connect in such a deep, sincere way. The Lilith person finally feels validated, likely for the first time. The Sun’s warm rays shine down upon Lilith’s tired face and she feels seen, truly seen. When Lilith and the Sun make a positive aspect like a trine or sextile, there is a potential for real, powerful healing. So if you see the Sun and Lilith in aspect in synastry, what do you need to know? Depending on the type of aspect the who points make, the impact could be deeply healing, completely maddening, or some mixture of the two. When Black Moon Lilith and the Sun come together in a synastry chart, the effects are written in bold strokes.
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